Mary’s Meals founder on the joy of giving

How many times in our lives have we heard a story about a random act of kindness that has impacted someone’s life for the better, or been the recipient of the generosity of others ourselves?

Down through the centuries Saints, writers and Popes have extolled the power of charity and generosity to change and enhance lives.

It was St Francis of Assisi who said, “For it is in giving that we receive,” while the 19th-century writer Charles Dickens wrote, “No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.”

During Holy Mass for new Cardinals in February 2015, Pope Francis said, “Charity is infectious, it excites, it risks and it engages. For true charity is always unmerited, unconditional and gratuitous.”

Giving and receiving

For over thirty years, the CEO and Founder of Mary’s Meals, Scotsman Magnus MacFarlane-Barrow has dedicated his life to making sure children have at least one meal every school day.

Mary's Meals now works with communities in 19 different countries around the world, providing a meal in a place of education for more than a million children.

In a new book entitled “Give: Charity and the Art of Giving Generously,” the Mary’s Meals founder looks at the role of philanthropy and generosity in our lives.

Speaking to Vatican Radio, he said one of the reasons he wrote the book was because over and over again he was seeing that the people who had really learned to give also tended “to be the people who are most happy in life, who are most full of joy, full of peace.”

Mr. MacFarlane-Barrow noted that one of the risks in charity work is that “you start to identify only as the giver and people out there as passive receivers, but really authentic charity is not like that. We’re all givers and receivers… and we need to learn how to give and how to receive.”

Responsibility and giving

Over the past few months, millions of lives have been impacted by the COVID-19 outbreak. Many people have become ill with the disease, while others have lost their jobs.

Recently, because of scandals, a number of charities have also made headlines for all the wrong reasons.

Asked whether people are becoming more reluctant to give, the Mary’s Meals CEO said while the consequences of the pandemic have been devastating for many, “in times of crisis and human suffering we see the goodness of people and that charity that seems to reside in the human heart.”

He also acknowledged “the persistent questions around charity, relating to some scandals or just questions that never seem to go away around charity [such as] overheads or CEO salaries.”

Mr. McFarlane-Barrow emphasized that people should ask questions and expect charitable organizations to be transparent “when they’re thinking of giving”.

Now more than ever, he added, those who are in positions of authority within charities have a responsibility to be stewards that elevate the place of charity, “that encourages people to give rather than doing things in a way that leads people to become disillusioned or sceptical or even cynical.”

By Lydia O’Kane
Suorce: vaticannews.va/en